6/25/2023 0 Comments The Cupid Column by Alex Nonymous![]() ![]() It is much better that it be a slowly building fire. Short story: the statement there was no spark is assuming the spark is or must be immediate. She wasn’t my type except she was exactly right for me, we fit so well together. Then in the midst of a dark time for both of us, we realized in the course of being supportive of one another, we didn’t want to stop, the spark happened then. Then something happened to throw us together in having to deal with it, still no spark. We did become friends she tutored my son as a favor. My fiancee when I first met her (not a date) did zero for me. ![]() PatsFan79 on ‘She reminded me of Audrey Tautou in the movie “Amelie” ’ Memories are created over a lifetime, not during one dinner date. Remember what you ask of others, ask of yourself first. I know of several couples including my parents, who were married for 44 years before they passed, who had less than memorable first dates. ![]() ![]() If your expectation is that a first date needs to be ‘memorable,’ you’ll be sorely disappointed. Not everyone you meet on a date will be “your type,” but if you break out of that notion and meet people for who they are, maybe “your type” will expand and evolve and you won’t be limited with dating. ![]()
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